Anyone who has gone through the amazing process of being pregnant and giving birth can understand the vast implications on life! Pregnancy has to be the most rewarding experience that any woman/mother can go through. However, does everyone realize what a profound effect pregnancy and the prenatal development process has on future child development is the issue at hand. It is very much connected in such strong ways and I will talk about that in more details later but for now, I want to share my own experience with one of my children and how things could have been much different.
Nathan is a healthy, 9 year old little boy (July 7, 2005) whom 9 years ago was born almost 5 weeks early. Seemed normal to me! My 11 year old was born almost 4 weeks early. I didn’t know what full term pregnancy meant at this time! I went into labor on July 4th of 2005 and just stayed home to monitor my contractions until I could see my dr on July 5th. After some testing and monitoring they sent me home to hopefully rest and stop the labor. On July 6th, I was back at the hospital with some serious labor pain. They were still not convinced to want to let me just have this baby so they sent me for an ultrasound, Nathan was weighing in at 7.6 lbs (mind you 5 weeks early) and as soon as they saw that, they were convinced to let me have this baby! So, I was admitted and they let the labor take its course. By early morning July 7th, the labor seemed to be slowing down. Early afternoon they started to induce as they didn’t want the baby going in to stress. After all, the labor technically started on July 4th! By 6:30 on the evening of July 7th, I was ready to go and before I knew it, there were 3 doctors, 5 nurses, and 2 interns at my bedside. I couldn’t quite figure out why all these people were in my room. I would later find out, after giving birth and be more aware, that they sent everyone in there because of how early Nathan was being born and they wanted to have a team in place in case he had to be swept away to the ICU or such. Apparently, as I am told, as soon as Nathan was born and plopped onto the scale weighing in at 7lbs exactly, 5 weeks early- the doctors and nurses where gone in seconds. He was breathing, heavy, and seemed to be just fine. Imagine had I gone to 40 weeks?? However, with in a few hours (probably about 6-8) Nathan began to lose some weight and show signs of a premature baby. His APGAR score was only 5.5 (7 is normal) and his weight had dropped to 6 lbs with in just a few hours. Normally a baby will go home weighing less than when they were born, be he lost a lot of weight very quickly as well was suffering from jaundice. We did end up in the hospital for about 4 days because he also failed what they call the car seat test. In NY, at least at my hospital, they put premature babies in their carseat with a simulator hooked to it. It makes the car-seat feel as if it is “traveling” in car at 60 MPH. They monitor to see how well the baby is able to stabilize in the car seat at this speed with out being injured. He failed twice and we couldn’t leave until he passed. It was quite the test 🙂
How does my birth experience apply to child development and the world we live in? Although its difficult to put the entire experience into words, I just imagine this birthing experience happening somewhere in which I did not have access to the medical facility that I did, or the highly trained doctors that were so concerned about Nathan because he was 5 weeks early… Things could have turned out entirely different for me and for him. Nathan may not be here today, may not be developing at the normal age in which he is developing and could have suffered from many more complications than he actually suffered from. When we look back at how there were 3 doctors and 5 nurses ready to sweep him away- I think about how fortunate we were to have that access! 8 medical professionals all stopped everything they were doing at the one moment to take care of one little baby- who in the end proved them to be a strong little man that just want to enter the world with some drama! We are very fortunate in the United States to have access to the medical care that we do- for those of us who take advantage of it. Unfortunately, many countries do not have that access and things are not always the same for those who have a pregnancy like I had. Also, many people in other countries actually choose not to use medical facilities and still have successful birth rates. I have included a link that I found and it is titled “Birth Customs Around the World” I found it to be very interesting to read and to compare/contrast what we do here in the United States.
On a side note, when I was pregnant with my 3rd child, I was placed on moderate bed rest at 30 weeks so that I would not have my 3rd child any earlier than 38 weeks. All of my children are healthy and doing well. Although Nathan did struggle to stay up to par developmentally until he reached school, again with out the prenatal and medical care that we did receive for him, his development could have suffered immensely and it has not.
Click here to read about customs and traditions for birthing in other countries:
http://www.parents.com/pregnancy/giving-birth/vaginal/birth-customs-around-the-world/?page=1